The splendor of friendship year ending brings with it many questions unanswered.
And after all, as long as there are questions, we are waiting and looking, then without too much forcing is a good thing.
A year that changed color so sudden, that was a specific treatment against sometimes, slamming the door with a new awareness and new approaches.
The most precious thing that I find myself emptying the pockets for the name of friendship.
A new order of magnitude, a new look, a new horizon that gets rid of all the romantic lines that until now encumbers my conception of friendship, devoid of meaning.
today are not the person I was yesterday. And I will not be the same person tomorrow.
We are all fragile animals, animals that lick their wounds, we are people who have spent within, people who have suffered, we're flesh and feeling. Fears, disappointments, joys, hopes, dreams, projects and failures ... Everyone made their own spectrum, each reflecting its colors,
his way. We have no accountability to anyone, at the start, we are born naked and alone, and these remain. Without tragedy, this is indeed the great gift that puts us in hand life: independence. The possibilities. The choice
.
Opportunities for improvement are offered by the outside world and must be seized, but not equally. What makes the difference is the way we choose
to relate to people. OR choose where
not relate at all.
The colors that are combined, do not come near, the shades that fill a void filling. Let affinity and other compensation, or only one of two or maybe the most complete irrationality. And that is what is being offered free to choose
.
In simplistic terms, I'll never go from the delicatessen to buy a pair of socks, because that pork may be the best butcher in town, but will not know how to please my request. I am not angry with the butcher if it was not in possession of socks to sell.
communities exist because there is complementarity. And there is also the substitutability of services.
choose the grocer that best suits my taste.
And if you're a butcher, he continues to improve the quality of your products, maintained that it had lost some customers, ask them why, look for a comparison. But if the dissatisfaction of the customers are gone is not due to the service you have done, whether in questioning you feel you do not have better things to offer, then volertene. You have chosen
to open your own shop, leave it to others to choose
what best you can, or do not wish to draw from your basket.
Travel companions are people who bring us in for a lifetime. They are part of us as an arm, a leg, an eye. E 'can also lose them completely, but there are been and perhaps will return, and certainly in some ways remain in the background.
Travel companions of tomorrow will be the people who look at you without trial, without rancor that you forgive, you are welcome without prior notice. All other extras are of little account of convenience. All other slip away on its own, self-eliminating, without making a tragedy is so short that needs to go. We can not overcome some prejudices. We can not and should not.
The sensations are naked, they do not need drapes, they need just to exist.
The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand nor the kindly smile nor the joy of the company's is the spiritual inspiration when discover that someone believes in us and is willing to trust us. - Ralph Waldo Emerson